Deluded or juvenile as this may be but whenever I have dreamt of settling down and getting hitched, I've always envisaged my partner as being my best friend.
I'd say that in my dating life I've had one experience where my partner has been that, which has been my longest relationship to date which lasted 7 years (check me out-that was a good innings lol), but since then, my partners have been simply boyfriends. There has been no great friendship that I can identify with all but a very small minority (1 other I can think off).
A year into my current relationship almost, it will be 1 year in september...now that our honeymoon period is over :( I am beginning to question. Is this a best friend? Is it even appropriate for me to be wanting such a thing? or is it something that harks back to when I was reading fairytale's of prince charming. The funny thing is I know that the prince in snow white, cinderella and the like all rescued the princess, but I'm not entirely sure they became best friends! I'm not sure where that notion comes from!
But anyways what do you think bloggers are partners supposed to be best friends? Is your partner your best friend? What's that like? (So I can compare lol).
Thursday 12 August 2010
Wednesday 11 August 2010
Welcome to the phenomenal women blog - part of bdss
Hello and welcome to my first blog on bdss!
If your not familiar with the maya angelou poem “phenomenal woman”, then you will probably think from the name of my blog that I am a completely conceited woman walking around thinking I'm phenomenal, well as great as i think I am, its more a tribute to the fabulous contributors to the bdss blog. We are a group of women expressing ourselves and everyone is welcome to join in!
So here goes first ever blog (I'm nervous lol)
I love the above poem as it inspires me to feel confident and womanly it says I am a women phenomenally, phenomenal woman that's me :) love it lol!
Its got me wondering what other things make me feel completely awesome and rocking....
1) A big hug and kiss from my son
2) Getting in some me time
3) Completing a goal or challenge I've set for myself
4) Spending time with good family and friends
5) Being inspired
........So my phenomenal ladies can you think of anything else?
If your not familiar with the maya angelou poem “phenomenal woman”, then you will probably think from the name of my blog that I am a completely conceited woman walking around thinking I'm phenomenal, well as great as i think I am, its more a tribute to the fabulous contributors to the bdss blog. We are a group of women expressing ourselves and everyone is welcome to join in!
So here goes first ever blog (I'm nervous lol)
I love the above poem as it inspires me to feel confident and womanly it says I am a women phenomenally, phenomenal woman that's me :) love it lol!
Its got me wondering what other things make me feel completely awesome and rocking....
1) A big hug and kiss from my son
2) Getting in some me time
3) Completing a goal or challenge I've set for myself
4) Spending time with good family and friends
5) Being inspired
........So my phenomenal ladies can you think of anything else?
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